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April 23, 2005

Brother of the Deceased

This is an entry on which you may leave comments for “Brother of the Deceased,” the case study for our discussion of biblical perspectives on death and dying.

Posted by AKMA at April 23, 2005 09:50 AM

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Akma,

any chance you have the case study, Brother of the Deceased, as a Word.doc file so you could email it to the commuting students?

thanks!
Leigh

Posted by: leigh at April 23, 2005 02:44 PM

A classmate and I just discussed this case study very briefly, commenting that we both had to deal with this a lot in CPE, but that neither one of us knew the answer yet. I never had a sister and I've never lost a sibling, but I did lose a dear friend of mine my junior year of college to a car accident. Because of that experience, I am very acquainted with Lance's (from the case study) college friends, even those from his Bible study group. They didn't know what to say or do, so they said nothing. When I was going through this that night, my roommate, who had recently lost his father to cancer, said nothing to me at first but just gave me a hug. Later in the week, after I had returned from home and the funeral, another close friend came up to me and at least acknoledged his uncertainty by saying, "Ryan, I know I've not been a very good friend through all this. It's because I have not known what to say and so I have said nothing. I'm sorry." That meant a lot to me, too. But as for a lot of my other friend's I think they fit the bill for Lance's circle of acquaintances and that is hard.

-R

Posted by: Ryan Whitley at April 26, 2005 01:23 PM

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